A New Chapter

My oh my, where to begin?!

It's been several months (much longer than intended) but I am happy to report that I am back on the scene and with a blushing bum to boot! Its been a terribly busy summer, with several long-term house guests, and coming off of a crazy year of studies, performances, weddings, and the like... I just needed some down time.

Tomorrow I'm about to take a trip up north and I'm looking forward to the slower pace of things for a little bit. There are several things that I have been doing or preparing to do, and although it's difficult for me to walk away mid-project, it will be good for me.

So... where do I start??


Let's dig right in with the good stuff!  =D

Today is (or was, as it is now past midnight) our 3-Year Anniversary!!!

Kind of amazing that we have gotten this far, but here we are. We have talk about wedding plans, but as it sits we're both too broke and busy to do much else than dream for the moment.

To be honest, things have been a bit rocky lately and I wasn't sure how much we'd be "celebrating", let alone talking... it's more from my end than his (yeah, yeah, big surprise), but I finally sat down and thought about things and came to a very different realization than I expected. And when I realized what I saw going on, I wrote him a letter and sent it to his email for him to process. What was lacking in our relationship, you ask? Respect.


Now this is a new topic for us... funny, given how powerful that word relates to the BDSM world... but it is. In the past we've had complications about sharing how we feel, showing love in the right ways, making time for one another. But more recently I started to feel a real resentment for him building, and that's when I realized what was going on: I was reacting to what I perceived as disrespect or lack of consideration, by brushing him off with rudeness, silence and disrespect.

So I told him what I thought... how I felt, and what I thought might help: Weekly Sessions.


Now I know that planned out sessions haven't exactly "worked" for us for one reason or another, but we DO have the scheduling down for once and we BOTH agreed that this would help with our current problem.


So... today... I received the First of our (long-overdue) Spanking Sessions!

 

(Image found on "google search"...)

Ouch!

Boy did he ever listen to me!

After our first discussion I sent him a "spanking guide" complete with a breakdown of how each tool we have feels when used, my recommendations on when to use each implement (as warm-up, for punishment, etc.), and other areas he had control over (wardrobe, length of session, positions)... after all, its been a while.

And honestly, after realizing what I did... I really felt like I deserved a full-out, red bottomed crying session.


Things didn't get that far today...

After all, it was our anniversary... and our first time back in the saddle. But I'm hopeful that we'll get there eventually. Lord knows I deserve it.



However, he did pay attention to my requests and much of our session looked a bit like this:

 

(Image found on Pinterest)

 
But it was more at THIS angle...

 

(Image found on Pinterest)

 

And it Ended even better...

 

 (Image from: www.sexypositions.net)

And  Sir got some sexy time too....  ;)

It was a wonderful afternoon together.

 

Quick Update

I promise that I am not slacking in my blogging duties... right now I am working on a lovely spanking story and it just isn't ready to post yet.

In the meantime, enjoy this sweet & naughty little promise of "what's to come"...

Fun Forum Question: What is this Lovely Lady thinking about? 
Bonus: What scene would we find if another photo was taken 5 or 10 minutes later?

I can't wait to hear your ideas! 

Have a great weekend everyone.

New Moon on New Years (Eve)

I noticed on my new 2014 calender that New Years Day has for the moon cycle listed "New Moon". I thought that was rather fitting. A new year, a new fresh bottom to spank....

And I think maybe J was looking to get things started early.


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New Years Eve

J and I had a quick minute alone (and I DO mean Quick!) so we decided to take advantage of a little "stress management" that has been long overdue.


We have been WAY off our game when it comes to sessions over the last 6 months for sure, so at this point I'm not sure how many weeks have gone by since the last time he "took care of things". What I DO know is...

My bottom is NOT used to that kind of attention anymore. I was a whiny little girl at every slap he placed on my behind. I squealed and cried out and kicked and yelped at every hint of a slap. He had to tell me repeatedly not to kick up my legs... and I'm sure I didn't even get a blush of color from the small amount of time he had to spank me.

And yet, every slap had a distinct feeling to it....

 

And then (as could be predicted) things were cut short with the arrival of family to ring in the new year. My panties weren't even removed...

I predict this year will have more changes than I originally expected... Maybe a consistent schedule for our sessions? Maybe I'll develop "Buns of Steel"? We shall see.

Happy (Official) New Year to All!!!

(Resolutions List to be posted soon...)

September Update

So I am back to school for the first time in three years... It's a bit refreshing to be back in class as the autumn season approaches. This is my favorite time of year, and although I know I'll be EXTRA busy will all the projects I am committing myself to, its still really exciting.

I made the seemingly crazy choice to take three language classes at once (it feeds into my career field, and has been a life goal of mine for some time now), I am expanding my home/educational business, and I have several projects and gigs that overlap including a friend's wedding in late October and application deadlines for Grad schools (of which I am still researching and narrowing down) due by December 1st. If I disappear now and then between posts, you can imagine why!



Recently, at my school bookstore, I happened upon a discount book table... a deadly thing for a collector such as myself, and I purchased some promising books on cooking for a fraction of their selling price. This long weekend (having a few days off for a change) I cracked open one of them and was pleasantly surprised by the author...

If you could see my book collection, you would notice a number of books dedicated to diets and cooking. Everything from styles of cooking, baking and grilling, to particular flare such as Italian and Thai. But, alas, I am no cook.

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Every so often, with confident stride, I will try a new recipe... but beyond that my skills have been limited to such culinary delights as: cheese melted over tortilla chips & served with salsa, boxed Macaroni & cheese, and cereals. I do make a pretty mean salad, but even that isn't really imaginative most of the time.

However... upon reading this new book, I felt encouraged to cook in a way that I never have before. I haven't tried any of the recipes listed, or the skills described, I AM only a third of the way through... but reading this book has made me rethink my approach to food on a whole new scale. I finally feel like I have a place to start, and that makes me feel really excited.

 

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I'm already excited about shopping for cookwear and digging in! Here's to a season of New skills & New Tastes to try! Wish me luck! I'll try to post photos and recipes as I go. ^_^

...Heck, maybe Sir will even Give-Me-A-Hand in the kitchen! ;)

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HAPPY LABOR DAY WEEKEND EVERYONE!