A New Chapter

My oh my, where to begin?!

It's been several months (much longer than intended) but I am happy to report that I am back on the scene and with a blushing bum to boot! Its been a terribly busy summer, with several long-term house guests, and coming off of a crazy year of studies, performances, weddings, and the like... I just needed some down time.

Tomorrow I'm about to take a trip up north and I'm looking forward to the slower pace of things for a little bit. There are several things that I have been doing or preparing to do, and although it's difficult for me to walk away mid-project, it will be good for me.

So... where do I start??


Let's dig right in with the good stuff!  =D

Today is (or was, as it is now past midnight) our 3-Year Anniversary!!!

Kind of amazing that we have gotten this far, but here we are. We have talk about wedding plans, but as it sits we're both too broke and busy to do much else than dream for the moment.

To be honest, things have been a bit rocky lately and I wasn't sure how much we'd be "celebrating", let alone talking... it's more from my end than his (yeah, yeah, big surprise), but I finally sat down and thought about things and came to a very different realization than I expected. And when I realized what I saw going on, I wrote him a letter and sent it to his email for him to process. What was lacking in our relationship, you ask? Respect.


Now this is a new topic for us... funny, given how powerful that word relates to the BDSM world... but it is. In the past we've had complications about sharing how we feel, showing love in the right ways, making time for one another. But more recently I started to feel a real resentment for him building, and that's when I realized what was going on: I was reacting to what I perceived as disrespect or lack of consideration, by brushing him off with rudeness, silence and disrespect.

So I told him what I thought... how I felt, and what I thought might help: Weekly Sessions.


Now I know that planned out sessions haven't exactly "worked" for us for one reason or another, but we DO have the scheduling down for once and we BOTH agreed that this would help with our current problem.


So... today... I received the First of our (long-overdue) Spanking Sessions!

 

(Image found on "google search"...)

Ouch!

Boy did he ever listen to me!

After our first discussion I sent him a "spanking guide" complete with a breakdown of how each tool we have feels when used, my recommendations on when to use each implement (as warm-up, for punishment, etc.), and other areas he had control over (wardrobe, length of session, positions)... after all, its been a while.

And honestly, after realizing what I did... I really felt like I deserved a full-out, red bottomed crying session.


Things didn't get that far today...

After all, it was our anniversary... and our first time back in the saddle. But I'm hopeful that we'll get there eventually. Lord knows I deserve it.



However, he did pay attention to my requests and much of our session looked a bit like this:

 

(Image found on Pinterest)

 
But it was more at THIS angle...

 

(Image found on Pinterest)

 

And it Ended even better...

 

 (Image from: www.sexypositions.net)

And  Sir got some sexy time too....  ;)

It was a wonderful afternoon together.

 

New Moon on New Years (Eve)

I noticed on my new 2014 calender that New Years Day has for the moon cycle listed "New Moon". I thought that was rather fitting. A new year, a new fresh bottom to spank....

And I think maybe J was looking to get things started early.


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New Years Eve

J and I had a quick minute alone (and I DO mean Quick!) so we decided to take advantage of a little "stress management" that has been long overdue.


We have been WAY off our game when it comes to sessions over the last 6 months for sure, so at this point I'm not sure how many weeks have gone by since the last time he "took care of things". What I DO know is...

My bottom is NOT used to that kind of attention anymore. I was a whiny little girl at every slap he placed on my behind. I squealed and cried out and kicked and yelped at every hint of a slap. He had to tell me repeatedly not to kick up my legs... and I'm sure I didn't even get a blush of color from the small amount of time he had to spank me.

And yet, every slap had a distinct feeling to it....

 

And then (as could be predicted) things were cut short with the arrival of family to ring in the new year. My panties weren't even removed...

I predict this year will have more changes than I originally expected... Maybe a consistent schedule for our sessions? Maybe I'll develop "Buns of Steel"? We shall see.

Happy (Official) New Year to All!!!

(Resolutions List to be posted soon...)

Ouch!

Well ladies and gentlemen...


...after 14 weeks and a few days I FINALLY got a spanking!

(Photo from Archives... I'm sure I've used this one before, but I really like it.)

And I can tell you, much like yoga when I take a break, my body was NOT up for the challenge. In my head I thought, "I know exactly what this will feel like... and it will be sexy, and just what I need."

And it WAS what I Needed... but NOTHING like I expected.

First, no warm-up... 

we don't usually do that, but we were worried about time. And I think J knows that its a good way to snap me out of my nervous joking and more into a submissive state.

 

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Second, my bum did NOT expect it to actually hurt. No idea what it was thinking, but there was no "this is just like riding a bike" experience here...

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Thirdly, I was ANYTHING but submissive... I wiggled, I giggled, I called out, and one time I even "told" him I was "running away" (from his spanking)...






All and all, it was a lot more like this:

 

(http://imgur.com/r/Spanking/P5rpTQz) 

But it was exactly what I needed.... for about the LAST 13 and a half weeks.  ;)

Thank you, Sir. May I have another?

 

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